SoulMate Search

I am looking forward to broadcasting live on Valentine’s Day although I know many of you may be out celebrating with your Sweetie. That being said there are plenty of others out there that are still looking for Mr. or Ms. Right. You may be familiar with the word “soulmate” and I personally think it is one of those overused words and ideas. What is a soulmate exactly? Most people tend to think it is the one right person that comes into our lives and makes our hearts leap and toes curl. There can also be the miss guided notion that each one of us has only one soulmate. In my opinion there are all different types of soulmates and they could be friends, ex’s and even people we feel have done us wrong. They come into our lives to teach us something, the good, the bad and sometimes the ugly. So when I am doing a reading for someone and they ask me “When am I going to meet my soulmate?”  I ask some questions to get clarity on exactly what they are looking for. I often find that they are looking for someone to share their lives with in a meaningful way and this is a good reason. Where things get off track is if their expectations are such that they expect this person coming in to be like a combination of Superman and the Dali Lama rolled into one who is going to fix all the problems of their life and create a happily ever after scenario. Gently I guide them to the idea that it may be a good time to fix and fulfill some of their own desires and look for someone who will balance things out.

Another falsehood I have pointed out is that there is not one perfect person for each of us. There are many, each with strengths and weaknesses that will blend well with ours to create a relationship that is a give and take on both sides. If the love of your life has left that does not mean that there is not another one out there that may not be the same but will be just as good.

One of the things I recommend is to do a vision board of what you would like in a perfect match. You can use physical appearance but also I suggest using emotional and mental traits you would like to see as well such as kindness, compassion and generosity. Take your time with this. Set the intention and then wait for the magic to happen. I have heard many positive stories of this method working.

Join me, Susan Dintino on Tuesday, February 14th on The Night Shift at 7:00 PM Eastern and I will be doing romance readings throughout the show. We will talk soulmates and give some pointers on how to find him or her.

 

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